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The Day I Almost Financially Ruined Myself Over a Throw Pillow (And Some Shoes)

Today, I got an unexpected email.

I had earned $40 in rewards at a store that I had no idea about. 

That felt like $4k to me at that moment. For real!

So, you can imagine my excitement (think of my gleeful facial expression)…or maybe you can’t imagine it…lol! 

But please hear me out. Let’s backtrack a little here….

Last Tuesday, I walked into Walmart for toothpaste.

Toothpaste.

I walked out 47 minutes later with:

  • A $24 decorative pillow that said “Live Laugh Love”
  • A bulk pack of snacks I absolutely did not need
  • More things that I will not name here

(And somehow…also a new pair of shoes from a stop at DSW…no judgement please!)

Explain that math.

One minute I’m price-comparing toothpaste like a financially responsible adult. The next minute I’m in the home decor aisle whispering, “This pillow is an investment.”

Ma’am. It’s polyester.

The shoes? No event. No outfit planned. No logical reason. But they were “such a good deal.” And apparently, that phrase disables my frontal lobe.

That was my sign.

It was time for a No Spend Challenge.

Not because I’m bad with money.
Not because I’m reckless.
But because I needed to get honest about my habits.


What Is a No-Spend Challenge?

Think of it as a financial reset.

For 30 days, you commit to spending on essentials only:

  • Groceries
  • Utilities
  • Rent or mortgage
  • Insurance
  • Gas
  • Pre-planned bills

Everything else? Paused.

No eating out.
No impulse shopping.
No new subscriptions.
No “little treats” that magically turn into big totals.

It’s not about restriction. It’s about awareness.

Because the truth is — most of us don’t have a money problem.

We have a habit problem.


Why This Challenge Is Actually Biblical

What surprised me most is how aligned this challenge feels with wisdom from Proverbs.

Proverbs 21:5 says:

“The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”

Hasty.
Like buying shoes because they’re 40% off.

This verse isn’t about never spending. It’s about slowing down. Planning. Being intentional.

And then there’s this one:

Proverbs 27:23

“Be diligent to know the state of your flocks, and attend to your herds.”

In modern terms?
Know where your money is going.

You can’t manage what you won’t look at.

And maybe my “flock” includes a suspicious number of throw pillows and impulse purchases.


The Real Benefits (Beyond Just Saving Money)

1. You Identify Unnecessary Spending

When you cut discretionary spending, you quickly see what was essential… and what was just routine.

The drive-thru runs.
The boredom scrolling.
The “it’s on sale so I have to” logic.

It exposes habits you didn’t even realize were there.


2. You Save More Than You Think

Eliminating non-essentials — even temporarily — creates breathing room.

That extra money can:

  • Build your emergency fund
  • Pay down debt
  • Help you save toward something meaningful

And watching your savings grow instead of shrink? That hits different.


3. You Reduce Financial Stress

Money stress often comes from feeling reactive.

The No-Spend Challenge gives you a plan. Clear boundaries. A decision made ahead of time.

~ Esther Amunga

No debating in the checkout line.
No guilt after swiping your card.
Just clarity.

And clarity brings peace.


4. You Simplify Your Life

When you stop constantly consuming, life slows down.

You:

  • Use what you already own
  • Cook what’s already in your kitchen
  • Wear what’s already in your closet
  • Find free ways to enjoy your time

Less clutter.
Less chaos.
More intention.


5. You Build Discipline That Lasts

Here’s the part I love most:

You start practicing the pause.

You learn to sit with the urge instead of automatically responding to it.

And that discipline doesn’t just affect your bank account. It spills into everything.

Proverbs 13:11 says:

“Wealth gained hastily will dwindle, but whoever gathers little by little will increase it.”

Little by little.

Not flash sales.
Not impulse buys.
Not emotional spending.

Consistency.


An Inspirational Reminder About Money Habits

Your financial future isn’t built in one big decision.

It’s built in daily habits.

Or as the quote goes:

“Successful money management isn’t about how much you make — it’s about the habits you keep.”

Small disciplines compound.

So do small leaks.


The Hardest Part (Let’s Be Honest)

It’s not saying no to a luxury vacation.

It’s saying no to:

  • “It’s only $12.”
  • “These shoes will go with everything.”
  • “I deserve this.”

You’ll feel the urge.

That doesn’t mean you’re failing.

The victory is in the pause.


If You’re Thinking About Trying It

Start small if a full month feels overwhelming.

Try:

  • 7 days
  • 14 days
  • Or no-spend weekdays or weekends

Set your rules. Define essentials. Be honest with yourself.

And if you find yourself “just browsing” DSW again?

Close the tab. Walk away. Pray about it if you need to.

This challenge isn’t about perfection.It’s about alignment.
Alignment with your goals.
Alignment with wisdom.

Alightment with the life you’re actually trying to build.

~ Esther Amunga

And maybe — just maybe — walking into Walmart for toothpaste…

…and leaving with toothpaste.

No overloaded carts at Costco with things you did not need.

No decorative polyester sermons required.

*This is a blogpost for me as much as it is for you.

About the Writer

About the Writer Esther Amunga is a passionate and uplifting presence in the nonprofit world. As both an Advanced Certified Nonprofit Professional (ACNP) and a Certified Nonprofit Professional (CNP), she brings a deep commitment to service and excellence to every space she enters. With a Master’s in Nonprofit Administration and more than two decades of hands-on experience, Esther has honed her expertise in strategic planning, fundraising, grant writing, marketing, and communication—always with an eye toward meaningful, lasting impact. Honored as a Lilly Scholar, an Alford Scholar, a two-time Blackbaud Scholar, and a lifetime member of Nu Lambda Mu, Esther has built her journey on continuous learning and purpose-driven leadership. Her work reflects a simple but powerful truth: challenges are not roadblocks—they are opportunities to grow, to innovate, and to create change that matters. As a warm listener, thoughtful coach, and trusted consultant and trainer, Esther partners with organizations of all sizes to design thoughtful, customized strategies that strengthen both immediate results and long-term sustainability. Her approach is grounded in empathy, collaboration, and a genuine desire to help others thrive. Through her company, Esstaaz Company LLC, Esther leads visionary initiatives such as the Esstaaz African Fashion Accessories Fairtrade Initiative—an effort that empowers women in vulnerable communities across Africa by expanding access, opportunity, and dignity through meaningful work. A creative at heart, Esther is also a published author of two children’s books, with an inspirational book on courage and resilience on the horizon. She also lends her expertise to the Detroit Metropolitan Youth Symphony, where she serves on the board in a fundraising and outreach advisory role. Guided by her life mantra—“Make Your Life Count for Something Great!”—Esther continues to inspire, uplift, and champion the work of those devoted to making a difference. www.estheramunga.com Esther Amunga, MNA, ACNP, CNP, GradPR Nonprofit and Fundraising Consultant, Coach, Trainer & Speaker Make your life count for something GREAT!
I love to inspire women and build hope, courage and resilience. Your story matters….you matter!

Hi,

My name is Esther. Thanks for reading my blog. I am a deep thinker who loves to reflect, write, and share my thoughts to inspire others and build hope. I love to write and share stories from my own experiences and observations. I am constantly learning and evolving.

I’ve spent my life believing that challenges aren’t roadblocks—they’re invitations to grow, innovate, and create impact that truly matters.

With over two decades in the nonprofit world and a Master’s in Nonprofit Administration, I bring heart, strategy, and purpose to everything I do. I’m an Advanced Certified Nonprofit Professional (ACNP) and Certified Nonprofit Professional (CNP), grounded in service and driven by excellence.

My work lives at the intersection of strategy and humanity—spanning strategic planning, fundraising, grant writing, marketing, board governance, CSR, sustainability, and communications. As a lifelong learner and proud Lilly Scholar, Alford Scholar, two-time Blackbaud Scholar, and lifetime member of Nu Lambda Mu, I’m always growing so I can help others do the same.

I’m a listener first, a coach by nature, and a trusted partner to organizations ready to strengthen today while building for tomorrow. Through Esstaaz Company LLC, I lead initiatives like the Esstaaz African Fashion Accessories Fairtrade Initiative, empowering women in vulnerable African communities with opportunity, dignity, and sustainable work.

Creativity fuels me. I’m the author of two children’s books, with an upcoming inspirational book on courage and resilience.

I serve on the Board of Directors of the Detroit Metropolitan Youth Symphony (https://www.detroitmys.org/) in a fundraising and outreach advisory role. I also volunteer my time and skills at the Kenya Education Fund (KEF) as Visibility, Publicity, and Marketing Advisor (https://www.kenyaeducationfund.org/about-us-1).

I live by one simple mantra: Make Your Life Count for Something Great! And every day, I work to help others do exactly that.

Visit my website estheramunga.com

2 thoughts on “The Day I Almost Financially Ruined Myself Over a Throw Pillow (And Some Shoes)”

  1. Your blogs just tickle me, you right so beautifully, so fun, so fast paced, but yet I can contemplate and then reread because reading these is so much fun.
    Not to mention informational too. What a wealth of knowledge you draw from and how you bring Bible scripture to life in a meaningful way.

    1. Your kind feedback keeps me writing (THANK YOU)…this blogging helps me not only inspire but unwind and I always hope that my readers feel the same way.

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